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the soul of the indian-第3部分
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conceived in the virgin breast of primeval nature; and dreamed out
in a hush that is only broken by the sighing of the pine tree or
the thrilling orchestra of a distant waterfall。
And when the day of days in her life dawnsthe day in which
there is to be a new life; the miracle of whose making has been
intrusted to her; she seeks no human aid。 She has been trained and
prepared in body and mind for this her holiest duty; ever
since she can remember。 The ordeal is best met alone; where no
curious or pitying eyes embarrass her; where all nature says to her
spirit: 〃'Tis love! 'tis love! the fulfilling of life!〃 When a
sacred voice comes to her out of the silence; and a pair of eyes
open upon her in the wilderness; she knows with joy that she has
borne well her part in the great song of creation!
Presently she returns to the camp; carrying the mysterious;
the holy; the dearest bundle! She feels the endearing warmth of it
and hears its soft breathing。 It is still a part of herself; since
both are nourished by the same mouthful; and no look of a
lover could be sweeter than its deep; trusting gaze。
She continues her spiritual teaching; at first silentlya
mere pointing of the index finger to nature; then in whispered
songs; bird…like; at morning and evening。 To her and to the child
the birds are real people; who live very close to the 〃Great
Mystery〃; the murmuring trees breathe His presence; the falling
waters chant His praise。
If the child should chance to be fretful; the mother raises
her hand。 〃Hush! hush!〃 she cautions it tenderly; 〃the spirits may
be disturbed!〃 She bids it be still and listenlisten to the
silver voice of the aspen; or the clashing cymbals of the
birch; and at night she points to the heavenly; blazed trail;
through nature's galaxy of splendor to nature's God。 Silence;
love; reverence;this is the trinity of first lessons; and to
these she later adds generosity; courage; and chastity。
In the old days; our mothers were single…eyed to the trust
imposed upon them; and as a noted chief of our people was wont to
say: 〃Men may slay one another; but they can never overcome the
woman; for in the quietude of her lap lies the child! You may
destroy him once and again; but he issues as often from that same
gentle lapa gift of the Great Good to the race; in which
man is only an accomplice!〃
This wild mother has not only the experience of her mother and
grandmother; and the accepted rules of her people for a guide; but
she humbly seeks to learn a lesson from ants; bees; spiders;
beavers; and badgers。 She studies the family life of the birds; so
exquisite in its emotional intensity and its patient devotion;
until she seems to feel the universal mother…heart beating in her
own breast。 In due time the child takes of his own accord the
attitude of prayer; and speaks reverently of the Powers。 He thinks
that he is a blood brother to all living creatures; and the
storm wind is to him a messenger of the 〃Great Mystery。〃
At the age of about eight years; if he is a boy; she turns him
over to his father for more Spartan training。 If a girl; she is
from this time much under the guardianship of her grandmother; who
is considered the most dignified protector for the maiden。 Indeed;
the distinctive work of both grandparents is that of acquainting
the youth with the national traditions and beliefs。 It is reserved
for them to repeat the time…hallowed tales with dignity and
authority; so as to lead him into his inheritance in the stored…up
wisdom and experience of the race。 The old are dedicated to
the service of the young; as their teachers and advisers; and the
young in turn regard them with love and reverence。
Our old age was in some respects the happiest period of life。
Advancing years brought with them much freedom; not only from the
burden of laborious and dangerous tasks; but from those
restrictions of custom and etiquette which were religiously
observed by all others。 No one who is at all acquainted with the
Indian in his home can deny that we are a polite people。 As a
rule; the warrior who inspired the greatest terror in the hearts of
his enemies was a man of the most exemplary gentleness; and
almost feminine refinement; among his family and friends。 A soft;
low voice was considered an excellent thing in man; as well as in
woman! Indeed; the enforced intimacy of tent life would soon
become intolerable; were it not for these instinctive reserves and
delicacies; this unfailing respect for the established place and
possessions of every other member of the family circle; this
habitual quiet; order; and decorum。
Our people; though capable of strong and durable feeling; were
not demonstrative in their affection at any time; least of all in
the presence of guests or strangers。 Only to the aged; who have
journeyed far; and are in a manner exempt from ordinary
rules; are permitted some playful familiarities with children and
grandchildren; some plain speaking; even to harshness and
objurgation; from which the others must rigidly refrain。 In short;
the old men and women are privileged to say what they please and
how they please; without contradiction; while the hardships and
bodily infirmities that of necessity fall to their lot are softened
so far as may be by universal consideration and attention。
There was no religious ceremony connected with marriage among
us; while on the other hand the relation between man and woman was
regarded as in itself mysterious and holy。 It appears that
where marriage is solemnized by the church and blessed by the
priest; it may at the same time be surrounded with customs and
ideas of a frivolous; superficial; and even prurient character。 We
believed that two who love should be united in secret; before the
public acknowledgment of their union; and should taste their
apotheosis alone with nature。 The betrothal might or might not be
discussed and approved by the parents; but in either case it was
customary for the young pair to disappear into the wilderness;
there to pass some days or weeks in perfect seclusion and
dual solitude; afterward returning to the village as man and wife。
An exchange of presents and entertainments between the two families
usually followed; but the nuptial blessing was given by the High
Priest of God; the most reverend and holy Nature。
The family was not only the social unit; but also the unit of
government。 The clan is nothing more than a larger family; with
its patriarchal chief as the natural head; and the union of several
clans by intermarriage and voluntary connection constitutes the
tribe。 The very name of our tribe; Dakota; means Allied People。
The remoter degrees of kinship were fully recognized; and
that not as a matter of form only: first cousins were known as
brothers and sisters; the name of 〃cousin〃 constituted a binding
claim; and our rigid morality forbade marriage between cousins in
any known degree; or in other words within the clan。
The household proper consisted of a man with one or more wives
and their children; all of whom dwelt amicably together; often
under one roof; although some men of rank and position provided a
separate lodge for each wife。 There were; indeed; few plural
marriages except among the older and leading men; and plural wives
were usually; though not necessarily; sisters。 A marriage
might honorably be dissolved for cause; but there was very little
infidelity or immorality; either open or secret。
It has been said that the position of woman is the test of
civilization; and that of our women was secure。 In them was vested
our standard of morals and the purity of our blood。 The wife did
not take the name of her husband nor enter his clan; and the
children belonged to the clan of the mother。 All of the family
property was held by her; descent was traced in the maternal line;
and the honor of the house was in her hands。 Modesty was her chief
adornment; hence the younger women were usually silent and
retiring: but a woman who had attained to ripeness of years and
wisdom; or who had displayed notable courage in some emergency; was
sometimes invited to a seat in the council。
Thus she ruled undisputed within her own domain; and was to us
a tower of moral and spiritual strength; until the coming of the
border white man; the soldier and trader; who with strong drink
overthrew the honor of the man; and through his power over a
worthless husband purchased the virtue of his wife or his daughter。
When she fell; the whole race fell with her。
Before this calamity came upon us; you could not find anywhere
a happier home than that created by the Indian woman。 There was
nothing of the artificial about her person; and very little
disingenuousness in her character。 Her early and consistent
training; the definiteness of her vocation; and; above all; her
profoundly religious attitude gave her a strength and poise that
could not be overcome by any ordinary misfortune。
Indian names were either characteristic nicknames given in a
playful spirit; deed names; birth names; or such as have a
religious and symbolic meaning。 It has been said that when a child
is born; some accident or unusual appearance determines his
name。 This is sometimes the case; but is not the rule。 A man of
forcible character; with a fine war record; usually bears the name
of the buffalo or bear; lightning or some dread natural force。
Another of more peaceful nature may be called Swift Bird or Blue
Sky。 A woman's name usually suggested something about the home;
often with the adjective 〃pretty〃 or 〃good;〃 and a feminine
termination。 Names of any dignity or importance must be conferred
by the old men; and especially so if they have any spiritual
significance; as Sacred Cloud; Mysterious Night; Spirit Woman; and
the like。 Such a name was sometimes borne by
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