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letters to his son, 1751-第9部分
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One of them; at least; will naturally carry you to Madame de la Valiores; unless he is discarded by this time; and Gelliot 'A famous opera…singer at Paris。' retaken。 Tell them frankly; 'que vous cherchez a vous former; que vous etes en mains de maitres; s'ils veulent bien s'en donner la peine'。 Your profession has this agreeable peculiarity in it; which is; that it is connected with; and promoted by pleasures; and it is the only one in which a thorough knowledge of the world; polite manners; and an engaging address; are absolutely necessary。 If a lawyer knows his law; a parson his divinity; and a financier his calculations; each may make a figure and a fortune in his profession; without great knowledge of the world; and without the manners of gentlemen。 But your profession throws you into all the intrigues and cabals; as well as pleasures; of courts: in those windings and labyrinths; a knowledge of the world; a discernment of characters; a suppleness and versatility of mind; and an elegance of manners; must be your clue; you must know how to soothe and lull the monsters that guard; and how to address and gain the fair that keep; the golden fleece。 These are the arts and the accomplishments absolutely necessary for a foreign minister; in which it must be owned; to our shame; that most other nations outdo the English; and; 'caeteris paribus'; a French minister will get the better of an English one at any third court in Europe。 The French have something more 'liant'; more insinuating and engaging in their manner; than we have。 An English minister shall have resided seven years at a court; without having made any one personal connection there; or without being intimate and domestic in any one house。 He is always the English minister; and never naturalized。 He receives his orders; demands an audience; writes an account of it to his Court; and his business is done。 A French minister; on the contrary; has not been six weeks at a court without having; by a thousand little attentions; insinuated himself into some degree of favor with the Prince; his wife; his mistress; his favorite; and his minister。 He has established himself upon a familiar and domestic footing in a dozen of the best houses of the place; where he has accustomed the people to be not only easy; but unguarded; before him; he makes himself at home there; and they think him so。 By these means he knows the interior of those courts; and can almost write prophecies to his own; from the knowledge he has of the characters; the humors; the abilities; or the weaknesses of the actors。 The Cardinal d'Ossat was looked upon at Rome as an Italian; and not as a French cardinal; and Monsieur d'Avaux; wherever he went; was never considered as a foreign minister; but as a native; and a personal friend。 Mere plain truth; sense; and knowledge; will by no means do alone in courts; art and ornaments must come to their assistance。 Humors must be flattered; the 'mollia tempora' must be studied and known: confidence acquired by seeming frankness; and profited of by silent skill。 And; above all; you must gain and engage the heart; to betray the understanding to you。 'Ha tibi erunt artes'。
The death of the Prince of Wales; who was more beloved for his affability and good…nature than esteemed for his steadiness and conduct; has given concern to many; and apprehensions to all。 The great difference of the ages of the King and Prince George presents the prospect of a minority; a disagreeable prospect for any nation! But it is to be hoped; and is most probable; that the King; who is now perfectly recovered of his late indisposition; may live to see his grandson of age。 He is; seriously; a most hopeful boy: gentle and good…natured; with good sound sense。 This event has made all sorts of people here historians; as well as politicians。 Our histories are rummaged for all the particular circumstances of the six minorities we have had since the Conquest; viz; those of Henry III。; Edward III。; Richard II。; Henry VI。; Edward V。; and Edward VI。; and the reasonings; the speculations; the conjectures; and the predictions; you will easily imagine; must be innumerable and endless; in this nation; where every porter is a consummate politician。 Dr。 Swift says; very humorously; that 〃Every man knows that he understands religion and politics; though he never learned them; but that many people are conscious that they do not understand many other sciences; from having never learned them。〃 Adieu。
LETTER CXXXVI1
LONDON; April 7; O。 S。 1751
MY DEAR FRIEND: Here you have; altogether; the pocketbooks; the compasses; and the patterns。 When your three Graces have made their option; you need only send me; in a letter small pieces of the three mohairs they fix upon。 If I can find no way of sending them safely and directly to Paris; I will contrive to have them left with Madame Morel; at Calais; who; being Madame Monconseil's agent there; may find means of furthering them to your three ladies; who all belong to your friend Madame Monconseil。 Two of the three; I am told; are handsome; Madame Polignac; I can swear; is not so; but; however; as the world goes; two out of three is a very good composition。
You will also find in the packet a compass ring set round with little diamonds; which I advise you to make a present of to Abbe Guasco; who has been useful to you; and will continue to be so; as it is a mere bauble; you must add to the value of it by your manner of giving it him。 Show it him first; and; when he commends it; as probably he will; tell him that it is at his service; 'et que comme il est toujours par vole et par chemins; il est absolument necessaire qu'il ale une boussole'。 All those little gallantries depend entirely upon the manner of doing them; as; in truth; what does not? The greatest favors may be done so awkwardly and bunglingly as to offend; and disagreeable things may be done so agreeably as almost to oblige。 Endeavor to acquire this great secret; it exists; it is to be found; and is worth a great deal more than the grand secret of the alchemists would be if it were; as it is not; to be found。 This is only to be learned in courts; where clashing views; jarring opinions; and cordial hatreds; are softened and kept within decent bounds by politeness and manners。 Frequent; observe; and learn courts。 Are you free of that of St。 Cloud? Are you often at Versailles? Insinuate and wriggle yourself into favor at those places。 L'Abbe de la Ville; my old friend; will help you at the latter; your three ladies may establish you in the former。 The good…breeding 'de la ville et de la cour' 'of the city and of the court' are different; but without deciding which is intrinsically the best; that of the court is; without doubt; the most necessary for you; who are to live; to grow; and to rise in courts。 In two years' time; which will be as soon as you are fit for it; I hope to be able to plant you in the soil of a YOUNG COURT here: where; if you have all the address; the suppleness and versatility of a good courtier; you will have a great chance of thriving and flourishing。 Young favor is easily acquired if the proper means are employed; and; when acquired; it is warm; if not durable; and the warm moments must be snatched and improved。 'Quitte pour ce qui en pent arriver apres'。 Do not mention this view of mine for you to any one mortal; but learn to keep your own secrets; which; by the way; very few people can do。
If your course of experimental philosophy with Abbe Nolot is over; I would have you apply to Abbe Sallier; for a master to give you a general notion of astronomy and geometry; of both of which you may know as much; as I desire you should; in six months' time。 I only desire that you should have a clear notion of the present planetary system; and the history of all the former systems。 Fontenelle's 'Pluralites des Mondes' will almost teach you all you need know upon that subject。 As for geometry; the seven first books of Euclid will be a sufficient portion of it for you。 It is right to have a general notion of those abstruse sciences; so as not to appear quite ignorant of them; when they happen; as sometimes they do; to be the topics of conversation; but a deep knowledge of them requires too much time; and engrosses the mind too much。 I repeat it again and again to you; Let the great book of the world be your principal study。 'Nocturna versate manu; versate diurna'; which may be rendered thus in English: Turn Over MEN BY DAY; AND WOMEN BY NIGHT。 I mean only the best editions。
Whatever may be said at Paris of my speech upon the bill for the reformation of the present calendar; or whatever applause it may have met with here; the whole; I can assure you; is owing to the words and to the delivery; but by no means to the matter; which; as I told you in a former letter; I was not master of。 I mention this again; to show you the importance of well…chosen words; harmonious periods; and good delivery; for; between you and me; Lord Macclefield's speech was; in truth; worth a thousand of mine。 It will soon be printed; and I will send it you。 It is very instructive。 You say; that you wish to speak but half as well as I did; you may easily speak full as well as ever I did; if you will but give the same attention to the same objects that I did at your age; and for many years afterward; I mean correctness; purity; and elegance of style; harmony of periods; and gracefulness of delivery。 Read over and over again the third book of 'Cicero de Oratore'; in which he particularly treats of the ornamental parts of oratory; they are indeed properly oratory; for all the rest depends only upon common sense; and some knowledge of the subject you speak upon。 But if you would please; persuade; and prevail in speaking; it must be by the ornamental parts of oratory。 Make them therefore habitual to you; and resolve never to say the most common things; even to your footman; but in the best words you can find; and with the best utterance。 This; with 'les manieres; la tournure; et les usages du beau monde'; are the only two things you want; fortunately; they are both in your power; may you have them both! Adieu。
LETTER CXXXVIII
LONDON; April 15; O。 S。 1751
MY DEAR FRIEND: Wh
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